21 thoughts that can change Perspectives
- Satish Jayaprakash
- Apr 24, 2020
- 3 min read
Updated: Jul 27, 2020
1. Right Vs wrong are not always True & constant
Right and wrongs are rule books from past experiences alone, need not be a reality. Right for one can be equally wrong for another person. Truth is always perception of Reality and not reality itself.
2. Behavior does not reflect Intentions
One cannot understand the full intentions of a person with their external behavior, how much ever trusted or personally close one might be.
3. Everyone tries to Fit in
Everyone tries to fit in to the environment or tribe they belong at that point of time, which also means new tribe = new behavior, so adaptation and changes in attitude & behavior is a fact.
4. People's model of world change
A world, where one doesn’t understand it from outside is not always radical; it’s normal reality for the one within it.
5. Bad and Good people don’t exist
There are 7 billion different People, Bad and Good judgment comes from within. Bad for one can be Good for another.
6. People respond to experience not reality
Person taking any decision or response, take with considering a set of limited information that they have in hand, but this information is always a sub set of entire information & options available.
7. Rigid narrow thinking, everyone has it
Rigidity in thinking comes with past experience; it can be your own enemy in not letting you to explore different things. Everyone does have certain level of Rigidity.
8. Herd mentality is a fact
People follow & copy the crowd in all circumstances consciously or subconsciously.
9. Problems & Solutions exist for all
Everyone has at least one for sure, but solutions can be different. One fit solution for all is not reality. For 7 billion People there are obviously more than 7 billion Solutions.
10. Problem dissolving is also a technique
While problem solving itself is a technique, problem dissolving can also solve problems. Ignorance is bliss for such situations.
11. Past, present and future is always relevant
In getting to the future using the past experience most miss the present, some live in past and some don’t care of future. All are relevant, imbalance in thought process will bring imbalance overall.
12. Desire is the Source of Future
Without the seed of Desire, there are no progress made and no stories and history created.
13. Relationships, biases, expectations dominates individual progress
One's progress in life are directly improvised or suppressed by the subconscious biases, expectations and relationships with others.
14. One's Values, Happiness, Beliefs and Identity create goals
One who wants something more often in life or give more often in life, more or less this something becomes the goal and aligned towards your larger personal beliefs and Identity, giving happiness and value to oneself. There is selfishness in selflessness as well.
15. Sub conscious learning is powerful
All behavior & actions from birth, learnt subconsciously produce perfection; more sub conscious learning brings more perfection.
16. Visualization brings closer to reality
Dreams are not the reality, but visualizing the goals brings focus and attitude to reach closer to the realistic Goal.
17. Listening & observing are greatest tools to find solutions
Most solutions, inventions, discoveries of the past were mostly accomplished by conscious listening and observation alone.
18. Priorities, Urgency and Importance works
Actions segregated by priorities and understanding difference in urgency and importance of an action decides the effectiveness of the outcome.
19. Everything works perfectly with a Cap, Threshold and Balance
Having margins, stop loss in ones Goals keeps the person grounded just like how a perfect centrifugal and centripetal force keeps the earth balanced in its orbit.
20. Failures is comma not full stop
Failures are virtual reality, a mere feedback loop in the life cycle. Failures and Success follow theory of relativity where success/failure of one person may not necessarily be success/failure of another.
21. The End Goal is always one Step behind
As soon as one reaches the goals, new goals are set. As one approach nearer to the goal, the goal post keeps changing.
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